Cheater, cheater pumpkin eaters to be more specific. And their partners in crime.
I have twisted morals, I think. I think cheating is heinous, in some ways. But I also feel that you can’t help you fall for, and sometimes when you are trapped in an awful situation with no viable way out without your life collapsing around you, that it’s a somewhat understandable thing to stray. I also believe that unless the cheater is an absolutely heartless prick with no concerns for anyone but themselves, that the fault usually lies with both parties in the relationship. Whether it’s the wife that won’t sleep with her husband, or the husband that has nothing but a barrage of insults to hurl at his wife on a day to day basis, I think that in most circumstances there is something that the victim is doing wrong. Not every case – but many.
When it comes to the extramarital party – I am much more lenient on my judgment of them if they are not friends with the person being cheated on. I almost have no real feelings about the other woman/man if they aren’t. But if they are. – if they are smiling in the face of a person while simultaneously fucking or dating their spouse behind their back – I have absolutely no problem saying that they are a lying sack of shit and the scum of the earth. I don’t think that’s harsh at all.
But really – I appreciate honesty. On all levels, right?
If someone was to just man the fuck up and stop hiding behind shit, and come out and say ‘yeah, I’m a bitch and I love someone else’s husband‘ or ‘yeah, my husband is a fucking asshole and i get my love from elsewhere now‘ I’d be much more likely to sit back and look at them with no hostility. Be real with it, right? Yeah.
I know of two people in this situation right now. And you know what they are doing? They are BOTH playing victim. Attempting to justify their actions and blame the other party. What. the fuck?
Aren’t you adults? Didn’t you know what you were doing?
You – oh my God – do you really think that your two faced, inconsiderate, unwarrantably conceited, pretentious and self serving ass can teach ANYONE anything? Do you think anyone would want to learn anything from you? And why are all these dumb mother fuckers holding your hand and supporting you through this bullshit? That’s not being a friend, that’s being a mother fucking sheep. I’m not one for calling people out publicly, but gotdamn, if anyone needs a reality check and and an ‘are you seriously wallowing in self pity right now?!‘ it’s you. I mean sure – ok – sometimes ‘the other woman’ can be a victim. But usually, I’d think that’d be when they don’t KNOW a guy is married from the jump. Oh, and when they aren’t smiley and shit with the wife before they even know the husband, and begin the affair right under the oblivious woman’s nose. And they don’t sit there crying on the shoulder of the guy they fucked over, (claiming to love him and be sorry for what they did to him in one breath and claiming to be an emotionally battered and abused woman in the next) knowing full well that they are just using him until something better comes along.
You dude – seriously? You’s a grown ass man. You fucked over your woman, who loves you very much. You told this other chick details of your marriage that she proceeded to blast on the internet, and paint your woman as a fat, lazy, unloving wife, while painting herself as a green tea drinking, rose water bathing, svelte and oh so blonde perfect pillar of perfection. But, your wife loves you obviously, and is willing to forgive your bullshit. What kind of magic you were able to work is beyond me, really. Lucky you. You don’t deserve her.
You deserve that ‘ohpleaseimsosadsomeonetellmeimamazing’ cunt of a woman who’s heart you broke. TWICE. You both are disgusting. And someone else needed to tell you that, evidently.
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