Comments on: Cheat or be cheated on?

By: Him

Him — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 17:28:07 +0000

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By: merlotmom

merlotmom — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 01:49:43 +0000

I have definite opinions on this but you’d have to get me drunk to hear them.

By: Kristie

Kristie — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 19:22:42 +0000

I would totally choose “cheat” over “be chated on” because, well, I am selfish! I certainly don’t want to get hurt! And I would, if I was cheated on.

But if I cheat, can it be with someone famous? Or is that not considered cheating (he’s NOT on my “list,” so…)?

Seriously though, I guess I consider “cheating” to be anything that violates trust. And if that trust has been established based on emotional or physical reasons/characteristics/promises/err… actions?, then violating that trust (physically OR emotionally) would be considered “cheating,” IMO.

And for some people, the emotional and physical are connected, so… yeah, either one would be considered “cheating,” IMO.

Nice post! Thought-provoking.

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By: Lynette

Lynette — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 05:11:41 +0000

I’ve done both. And both sucked…it sucked to be cheated on and it sucked to cheat & realize it was more because of spite and being neglected than any real emotional connection. Hmmm..I don’t think I’d do it again. But I did learn something. Every guy loves a flexible woman. LOL.

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By: April

April — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 04:47:28 +0000

My husband betrayed me first with his dishonesty, thievery, and (I’m fairly certain) sexual affairs. When I cheated, it was my reward!
I choose to cheat every day and twice on Sunday. (Hmmm…wonder if that’s why I’m single?)

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