Comments on: Rented: There Were Two http://www.icanonlybe.me/rented-there-were-two/ {I Can Only Be.Me} Wed, 17 Mar 2010 05:25:20 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: teri http://www.icanonlybe.me/rented-there-were-two/comment-page-1/#comment-13636 teri Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:47:31 +0000 http://immoralmatriarch.com/?p=1786#comment-13636 Reading your story touched my heart i was never able to afford ivf but i tried every home remedie and any thing to try to have a child and i know the emptiness you feel when you have to leave the hospital with your heart heavy and the pain so unbearable you dont think you can make it through another day and the sorrow you endure knowing that the one thing a woman is suppose to be able to do is have children and to be the mother i know i was born to be and i am jelous and angry ass hell ( after 2 misscarriages)when i see stories of unfit mothers or child abuse and i question it and i pray about it alot cause i know that it is my pain talking and that god will never put anymore on us than we can handle cause he is a kind loving god and in him i must trust and who know god may have a different plan for your family maybe mj will be a little older big sister remember doctor's can tell you there diagnosis but only god know the true out come thanks for letting me vent and god bless you and yours keep the FAITH Reading your story touched my heart i was never able to afford ivf but i tried every home remedie and any thing to try to have a child and i know the emptiness you feel when you have to leave the hospital with your heart heavy and the pain so unbearable you dont think you can make it through another day and the sorrow you endure knowing that the one thing a woman is suppose to be able to do is have children and to be the mother i know i was born to be and i am jelous and angry ass hell ( after 2 misscarriages)when i see stories of unfit mothers or child abuse and i question it and i pray about it alot cause i know that it is my pain talking and that god will never put anymore on us than we can handle cause he is a kind loving god and in him i must trust and who know god may have a different plan for your family maybe mj will be a little older big sister remember doctor’s can tell you there diagnosis but only god know the true out come thanks for letting me vent and god bless you and yours keep the FAITH

]]> By: Karen MEG http://www.icanonlybe.me/rented-there-were-two/comment-page-1/#comment-13635 Karen MEG Fri, 06 Nov 2009 12:06:58 +0000 http://immoralmatriarch.com/?p=1786#comment-13635 I was mesmerized by your story, following your highs and your lows. And damn, damn those lows. And damn, damn those fertiles. Once an infertile, always an infertile, even if you do happen to hit the lottery like I did. A combined 10 years, 8 years on treatment, 5 IUI's and an IVF later, two wonderful kids. My problem was getting pregnant, not staying pregnant. I find even after you have the one, secondary infertility is almost even worse- I was obsessive, almost. I cannot imagine losing a baby (or several miscarriages for that matter). My heart is breaking for you. It will be hard for you to see the babies; but hopefully not a big problem. Hugs. I was mesmerized by your story, following your highs and your lows. And damn, damn those lows. And damn, damn those fertiles. Once an infertile, always an infertile, even if you do happen to hit the lottery like I did. A combined 10 years, 8 years on treatment, 5 IUI’s and an IVF later, two wonderful kids. My problem was getting pregnant, not staying pregnant. I find even after you have the one, secondary infertility is almost even worse- I was obsessive, almost. I cannot imagine losing a baby (or several miscarriages for that matter). My heart is breaking for you.

It will be hard for you to see the babies; but hopefully not a big problem. Hugs.

]]> By: tokenblogger http://www.icanonlybe.me/rented-there-were-two/comment-page-1/#comment-13634 tokenblogger Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:47:19 +0000 http://immoralmatriarch.com/?p=1786#comment-13634 I am sorry for you lost, but I have to tell you: You are a damn fine writer. Do you have your own blog, too? I am sorry for you lost, but I have to tell you: You are a damn fine writer.

Do you have your own blog, too?

]]> By: IllegitimateAngel http://www.icanonlybe.me/rented-there-were-two/comment-page-1/#comment-13633 IllegitimateAngel Sun, 01 Nov 2009 19:01:06 +0000 http://immoralmatriarch.com/?p=1786#comment-13633 I hate typos :( I hate typos :(

]]> By: IllegitimateAngel http://www.icanonlybe.me/rented-there-were-two/comment-page-1/#comment-13632 IllegitimateAngel Sat, 31 Oct 2009 17:54:10 +0000 http://immoralmatriarch.com/?p=1786#comment-13632 it took me a few days to respond b/c I have no first hand notion of the desire to bear children. I actually never planned to have children and had intended from the time that I was a teen to adopt and/or foster kids. I will not profess to understand the concept of wanting to create life, as my personal opinion is that we have so many lives in this world that are unwanted. I don't want my personal beliefs or values to diminish your pain, as I am sure that it is great. that is really all I have to say. I just wanted to acknowledge that you are/were in pain and nothing anyone says, no cliches or scriptures or quotes from a book, are going to take that away. <3 it took me a few days to respond b/c I have no first hand notion of the desire to bear children. I actually never planned to have children and had intended from the time that I was a teen to adopt and/or foster kids. I will not profess to understand the concept of wanting to create life, as my personal opinion is that we have so many lives in this world that are unwanted. I don’t want my personal beliefs or values to diminish your pain, as I am sure that it is great. that is really all I have to say. I just wanted to acknowledge that you are/were in pain and nothing anyone says, no cliches or scriptures or quotes from a book, are going to take that away.

<3

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