I created a new blog a couple of weeks ago – Why They’re Hot. It’s basically a place for me to lust over hot celebrities. To completely sexually objectify them like I do in my head. Like I believe many of us do. I write under ‘Blissed’, my friend Justine writes them up too and we get a crap load of awesome reader submissions. It’s funny and it’s explicit and all around awesome.
There have been all kinds of things said about it, negative and positive, but one that struck me as funny and sad simultaneously was someone saying that we are ’so un-classy’. They reblogged one of our posts and struck out the lines about sex.
At first I was like “WTF?! Hahaha this person is so crazy – what does she expect? Has she not read our previous posts? They’re insanely explicit – I mean that’s our thing, our little niche!!”
But then I thought about it more and I was like “hmm… I wonder why women discussing their sexual desires is so ‘ un-classy’.” I wonder why it’s not ok, why it’s frowned upon for a chick to talk about masturbating or giving blow jobs or fucking. Why in order to be a lady, in order to get respect, to be considered classy – you have to keep that kind of talk, those thoughts to yourself or between you and your husband. I mean of course there is a time and place but damn.
Women like to fuck, just as much as men do. Women fuck themselves, they fuck each other, they fuck whomever they want – there’s nothing classless about that. There’s definitely nothing un-classy about talking about it.
We’re not in the 40’s anymore folks. We have desires, we have needs and wants and we have just as much right to discuss them frankly as men do.
Talking about sex is not wrong or right, it just is what it is. It’s honesty.
This is not really in defense of the blog, or the post, or how badly I want to fuck Justin Timberlake’s dick off. It’s simply a statement on the fact that in this day and age? Women should be allowed to say they want to ride a man’s face if they want to, without being frowned upon. Because sometimes we do.
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Listening to: Sam Sparro – Cut Me Loose
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Oh Maria, you are too much girl! And this post is spot on, I’m a virgin but my friends frown down on me if I say something like “I’d fuck him”.
I saw the post where the chick crossed out all of the lines about sex and I giggled.
A prude will always be a prude, and therefore they will never be any fun at all.
I love your blog. Keep doing what you’re doing.
September 18, 2009 at 10:08 pm
Now why did those last two paragraphs just get me all hot and bothered? LOL!
I love you, girl! Your new site rocks!!!